This would be me…
“Or are you so ashamed that you’d rather impose your own isolation, as in the Four of Cups? Is there so much guilt involved in whatever you need help with, that you’d rather vanish all together?”
As someone who previously felt shame in asking for help, I have a lot of experience in this area.
I used to think that if I couldn’t conquer something on my own, I was a failure. And not even just day to day tasks. In fact, I would internalize my emotional problems to the point of many sicknesses, because I thought that if I needed help dealing, I was crazy.
This, in turn, manifested in a lot of “acting out.” Crying when drunk, doing a bunch of drugs, easy sex, the list goes on. I was seeking attention because I needed help and didn’t know how to ask for it.
But here’s the secret: Asking for help isn’t shameful. Everyone needs help at some point in their life.
And now, that’s why I do what I do. I help those in need. I help rectify bad judgement and steer clients…
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